I need advice! My husband of 5 1/2 years just left me to be with another woman. Worst of all, I am pregnant and due in February. We also have a 4 yrs old son. The woman is much older than he is. He is 28 and she is 36. She's a mess...she's still married (but they've been separated for 4 years), she has 3 children and lives with her dad. She doesn't even have a job..she lives off of her husband who refuses to divorce her. I caught him by noticing that there was a number on his cell phone bill that was being called much more than me. In addition to 6300 text messages per month (I don't know why I never bothered to look at the bill until now.)
When I confronted him he kept making excuses for whose number it was. Finally I asked for his phone to call the number. He had her stored as a man he works with. When I began calling he decided to admit who she was. He said he LOVED her and no longer had feelings for me. He said he wouldn't try to work on our marriage. He said he wants a divorce, I don't. The "affair" has been going on for a year now. Their communication was done through FaceBook, phone calls and text messaging. He admitted they were sleeping together.
So...he left our new home two months ago (a home my parents purchased for us). He is now living with his dad. I am so upset that I am not going to have a father for my baby. I just can't understand. I miss my husband but I'm not sure what is going on with him. We never faught and I didn't even know there was anything wrong with our marriage. When our friends heard about this they were shocked. EVERY one of his friends has tried to talk to him telling him that he had everything they've always wanted. I miss my family and I am so scared to have this baby alone. He was the one who wanted another baby.
My question is...How can you just leave your pregnant wife? How can a woman do this to a family...let alone a pregnant woman who needs her husband for support! PLEASE HELP! I just want advice!